Kimwe na mama, akazi ka papa karagoye kandi rimwe na rimwe karababaje, kurera abana.Ariko, bitandukanye na ba mama, papa mubisanzwe ntibamenyekana bihagije kuruhare rwabo mubuzima bwacu.
Nibatanga guhobera, gukwirakwiza urwenya rubi n'abicanyi.Papa adushimire aho turi hejuru kandi atwigishe gutsinda ingingo yo hasi.
Papa yatwigishije gutera umupira wa baseball cyangwa gukina umupira.Igihe twatwaraga imodoka, bazanaga amapine yacu meza hamwe nu mwobo mu iduka kubera ko tutari tuzi ko dufite ipine iringaniye hanyuma tugatekereza gusa ko hari ikibazo kijyanye na moteri (birababaje, papa).
Mu rwego rwo kwizihiza umunsi mukuru wa papa muri uyu mwaka, Greeley Tribune yunamiye ba se batandukanye mu gace kacu bavuga amateka ya se.
Dufite papa wumukobwa, papa wubahiriza amategeko, papa umwe, papa urera, papa, papa wumuriro, papa ukuze, papa wumuhungu, na papa muto.
Nubwo buriwese ari papa, buriwese afite amateka ye yihariye ndetse no kumva icyo benshi muribo bita "akazi keza kwisi".
Twakiriye urutonde rwinshi kuriyi nkuru mubaturage, kandi ikibabaje, ntitwashoboye kwandika izina rya buri se.Tribune yizeye guhindura iyi ngingo mubirori ngarukamwaka kugirango tubashe gutanga inkuru nyinshi za se mugace kacu.Nyamuneka nyamuneka wibuke aba se umwaka utaha, kuko dushaka kubasha kuvuga amateka yabo.
Mu myaka myinshi, Mike Peters yabaye umunyamakuru w'ikinyamakuru kugira ngo amenyeshe abaturage ba Greeley na Weld County ibyaha, abapolisi, n'andi makuru y'ingenzi.Yakomeje kwandika kuri Tribune, asangira ibitekerezo bye muri “Rough Trombone” buri wa gatandatu, kandi yandika raporo zamateka ku nkingi ya “Imyaka 100 ishize”.
Nubwo kuba icyamamare mubaturage ari byiza kubanyamakuru, birashobora kubabaza abana babo.
Vanessa Peters-Leonard yongeyeho amwenyura ati: “Niba nta muntu uvuze ati: 'Yoo, uri umwana wa Mike Peters,' ntushobora kujya ahantu hose.”“Abantu bose bazi data.Nibyiza cyane iyo abantu batamuzi. ”
Mick yagize ati: “Ngomba gukorana na papa inshuro nyinshi, gutembera mu mujyi rwagati, kandi nkagaruka iyo ari umutekano.”“Ngomba guhura n'itsinda ry'abantu.Birashimishije.Papa ari mubitangazamakuru ko ahura nabantu b'ingeri zose.Kimwe mu bintu. ”
Kuba Mike Peters yaramenyekanye cyane nkumunyamakuru byagize uruhare runini kuri Mick na Vanessa mu mikurire yabo.
Vanessa yabisobanuye agira ati: “Niba hari ibyo nigiye kuri data, ni urukundo n'ubunyangamugayo.Ati: “Kuva ku kazi ke kugeza ku muryango we n'incuti, uyu ni we.Abantu baramwizera kubera ubunyangamugayo yanditse, umubano afitanye n'abantu, no kubifata ku buryo umuntu wese ashaka ko bamufata. ”
Mick yavuze ko kwihangana no gutega amatwi abandi aribintu bibiri byingenzi yigiye kuri se.
Mick yagize ati: “Ugomba kwihangana, ugomba kumva.Ati: "Ni umwe mu bantu bihangana nzi.Ndacyiga kwihangana no gutega amatwi.Bisaba ubuzima bwawe bwose, ariko arabimenya. ”
Ikindi kintu abana ba Peters bigiye kuri se na nyina nicyo gitera urugo rwiza nubusabane.
Ati: “Baracyafite ubucuti bukomeye, umubano ukomeye.Aracyamwandikira amabaruwa y'urukundo, ”Vanessa.Ati: "Ni akantu gato, nubwo nkuze, ndareba nkeka ko aribwo gushyingirwa bigomba kumera."
Nubwo abana bawe bafite imyaka ingahe, uzahora ubabera ababyeyi, ariko kumuryango wa Peters, nkuko Vanessa na Mick bakura, iyi mibanire isa nubucuti.
Kwicara kuri sofa ukareba Vanessa na Mick, biroroshye kubona ishema, urukundo n'icyubahiro Mike Peters afitiye abana be bombi bakuze nabantu babaye.
Mu ijwi rye ryoroheje Mike Peters yagize ati: "Dufite umuryango mwiza n'umuryango ukunda."“Ndabyishimiye cyane.”
Nubwo Vanessa na Mick bashobora gutondeka ibintu byinshi bize kuri se mumyaka yashize, kuri se mushya Tommy Dyer, abana be bombi ni abarimu kandi ni umunyeshuri.
Tommy Dyer numufatanyabikorwa wa Brix Brew na Kanda.Iherereye kuri 8 Mutagatifu 813, Tommy Dyer ni papa wubwiza bubiri bwumuhondo-3 1/2 Lyon wimyaka 2 na Lucy wamezi 8.
Dell yagize ati: "Igihe twabyaraga umuhungu, natwe twatangiye ubu bucuruzi, ku buryo nashoye byinshi mu gihe kimwe."“Umwaka wa mbere wari uhangayitse cyane.Mu byukuri byafashe igihe kinini kugirango menyere data.Sinigeze numva ko ndi papa kugeza igihe (Lucy) yavukiye. ”
Dale amaze kubyara umukobwa we muto, ibitekerezo bye kuri se byarahindutse.Iyo bigeze kuri Lucy, kurwana kwe gukomeye no gutererana na Lyon nikintu atekereza kabiri.
Ati: “Numva meze nk'umurinzi.Nizeye kuzaba umugabo mu buzima bwe mbere yuko ashyingirwa, ”ibi bikaba byavuzwe ubwo yahoberaga umukobwa we muto.
Nkumubyeyi wabana babiri bareba kandi bagacengera muri byose, Dell yahise yiga kwihangana no kwita kumagambo ye no mubikorwa bye.
Dell yagize ati: “Buri kintu gito kibagiraho ingaruka, ugomba rero kumenya neza kuvuga ibintu byiza bibakikije.”“Ni uduce duto, bityo amagambo yawe n'ibikorwa byawe ni ngombwa.”
Ikintu Dyer akunda kubona nukuntu imiterere ya Leon na Lucy itera imbere kandi bitandukanye.
Ati: “Leon ni umuntu ufite isuku, kandi ni umuntu wuzuye akajagari, umubiri wose.”“Birasekeje cyane.”
Ati: “Mvugishije ukuri, arakora cyane.”“Hariho amajoro menshi iyo ntari murugo.Ariko nibyiza kugira umwanya hamwe nabo mugitondo kandi ugakomeza kuringaniza.Izi nimbaraga zihuriweho numugabo numugore, kandi sinshobora kubikora tutamufite.
Tumubajije inama yatanga abandi ba papa bashya, Dale yavuze ko mubyukuri papa atari ikintu ushobora gutegura.Byarabaye, "uhindura kandi ubimenye".
Ati: "Nta gitabo cyangwa ikindi kintu cyose ushobora gusoma".“Abantu bose baratandukanye kandi bazagira ibihe bitandukanye.Inama nakugira rero ni ukwiringira imitekerereze yawe no kugira umuryango n'inshuti iruhande rwawe. ”
Biragoye kuba umubyeyi.Ababyeyi barera abana biragoye.Ariko kuba umubyeyi umwe wumwana mudahuje igitsina birashobora kuba umwe mubikorwa bigoye.
Umuturage wa Greeley Cory Hill n'umukobwa we Ariana w'imyaka 12 y'amavuko bashoboye gutsinda ikibazo cyo kuba umubyeyi umwe, tutibagiwe no kuba se w'umukobwa umwe.Hill yahawe uburenganzira bwo kurera igihe Ariane yari afite imyaka 3.
“Ndi papa ukiri muto;”Namubyaye mfite imyaka 20.Kimwe n'abashakanye benshi, ntabwo twakoraga imyitozo kubera impamvu zitandukanye. ”Hill yabisobanuye.Ati: “Nyina ntabwo ari ahantu ashobora kumuha ubufasha akeneye, birumvikana rero ko ndeka akazi ke igihe cyose.Iguma muri iyi leta.”
Inshingano zo kuba se w'umwana muto zafashaga Hill gukura vuba, kandi yashimye umukobwa we "kumukomeza kuba inyangamugayo no gukomeza kuba maso".
Ati: "Niba nta nshingano mfite, nshobora gukomeza ubuzima bwe hamwe na we."Ati: “Ntekereza ko iki ari ikintu cyiza n'umugisha kuri twembi.”
Gukura hamwe numuvandimwe umwe gusa kandi nta mushiki wawe ugomba kuvuga, Hill agomba kwiga byose bijyanye no kurera umukobwa we wenyine.
“Uko agenda akura, ni umurongo wo kwiga.Ubu ari mubyangavu, kandi hariho ibintu byinshi byimibereho sinzi kubyitwaramo cyangwa kubisubiza.Impinduka z'umubiri, wongeyeho impinduka z'amarangamutima nta n'umwe muri twe wigeze agira ”, Hill amwenyura.“Ni ubwa mbere twembi, kandi bishobora guhindura ibintu neza.Ntabwo rwose ndi inzobere muri uru rwego-kandi sinigeze mvuga ko ndi. ”
Iyo havutse ibibazo nkimihango, bras nibindi bibazo bifitanye isano nabagore, Hill na Ariana bafatanya kubikemura, ibicuruzwa byubushakashatsi no kuganira ninshuti zumugore nimiryango.
Hill yagize ati: "Afite amahirwe yo kugira abarimu bakomeye mu mashuri abanza, kandi we n'abarimu bafitanye isano rwose bamushyize mu burinzi kandi batanga uruhare rwa nyina."Ati: “Ntekereza ko bifasha rwose.Yibwira ko hari abagore bamukikije bashobora kubona ibyo ntashobora gutanga. ”
Izindi mbogamizi kuri Hill nkumubyeyi umwe zirimo kutabasha kujya ahantu icyarimwe, kuba ufata ibyemezo wenyine kandi utunga wenyine.
“Uhatiwe kwifatira umwanzuro.Nta gitekerezo cya kabiri ufite cyo guhagarika cyangwa gufasha gukemura iki kibazo, ”Hill.Ati: “Buri gihe biragoye, kandi bizongera impungenge runaka, kuko niba ntashobora kurera uyu mwana neza, byose ni njye bireba.”
Hill azatanga inama kubandi babyeyi barera abana, cyane cyane ba se basanze ari ababyeyi barera abana, ko ugomba gushaka uburyo bwo gukemura ikibazo ukabikora intambwe ku yindi.
Ati: “Igihe nabonaga bwa mbere Ariana, nari mpuze cyane ku kazi;Nta mafaranga nari mfite;Nabwirijwe kuguza amafaranga yo gukodesha inzu.Twahanganye igihe gito, ”Hill.“Ibi ni ibisazi.Sinigeze ntekereza ko tuzatsinda cyangwa tugera kure, ariko ubu dufite inzu nziza, ubucuruzi bukorwa neza.Birasaze uko ufite ubushobozi mugihe utabimenye.Hejuru. ”
Anderson yicaye muri resitora yumuryango The Bricktop Grill, Anderson yaramwenyuye, nubwo amaso ye yuzuye amarira, ubwo yatangiraga kuvuga ibya Kelsey.
“Data ubyara ntabwo ari mubuzima bwanjye rwose.Ntahamagara;ntagenzura, nta kintu na kimwe, ku buryo ntajya mbona ko ari data ”, Anderson.“Igihe nari mfite imyaka 3, nabajije Kelsey niba afite ubushake bwo kuba data, arambwira ati yego.Yakoze ibintu byinshi.Yahoraga iruhande rwe, ibyo ni iby'ingenzi kuri njye. ”
Ati: "Mu mashuri yisumbuye ndetse n'umwaka wa mbere n'uwa kabiri, yambwiye ibijyanye n'ishuri n'akamaro k'ishuri".Ati: “Natekerezaga ko ashaka kundera gusa, ariko nabyize nyuma yo gutsindwa amasomo make.”
Nubwo Anderson yakurikiranye amasomo kumurongo kubera icyorezo, yibukije ko Kelsey yamusabye kubyuka kare kugirango yitegure ishuri, nkaho yagiye mwishuri imbonankubone.
Anderson yagize ati: "Hariho ingengabihe yuzuye, bityo dushobora kurangiza imirimo y'ishuri kandi tugakomeza gushishikara."